HELP.THEM.HEAL WORKSHOP
August 26, 2022, 12:00 - 4:00pm Eastern
This workshop will help clinicians and coaches to do this work with couples. It will be a summary of ways that professionals can layout the early recovery couples work to provide safety so they can focus on the ERCEM exercises to do the 3 - phase work. We will go through 2 exercises in each phase to help move the couple through the needed safety by teaching skills that will enhance communication and boundaries. We will also be going over 2 exercises that processes anger, grief, mourning and loss. Lastly professionals will learn how to help couples identify when they are working towards or are in post-traumatic growth so that they can experience the relief from Partner Betrayal and Sex Addiction and take on a new identity as a couple. You will be given some new worksheets for each phase.
Book Needed: Help.Them.Heal
The professional does not need to read the entirety of the book prior to workshop. But it is needed as a manual for the workshop
Fee: $189 or early bird fee of $159 (ending August 15th at midnight)
If you are an ERCEM Trainee/Candidate, ask about the additional $10 discount. Email info@carolthecoach.com
ERCEM TRAINING - Sponsored by APSATS
September 6 - 9, 2022 10am - 5pm Eastern
Carol Juergensen Sheets LCSW, CCPS-S, CSAT, PCC and
Aarti Chidambaram, MA, MNLP, CCPS
For all helping professionals
This training takes your skills to the next level. Carol the Coach is the first clinician to have developed an Empathy Model that teaches the sex addict to promote healing throughout all 3 phases of Partner Betrayal.
The goal of Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model Training is to provide the gold standard of care for professionals in facilitating relational skills that are healthy, safe, and effective for couples seeking to restore their relationship after sex addiction and partner betrayal.
Professionals will learn empathy and relational skills that they can use with their clients which will enhance working through the 3 Phase Model of Partner Betrayal developed from the APSATS MPTM Model.
Teaching the addict how to empathize is necessary to build the foundational work that is necessary to create safety and stabilization and to prepare for the grieving and anger work in Phase 2 of Partner Betrayal. This is the first training that will provide a roadmap to helping her heal with the addict by her side.
This 4-day training will provide exercises that have been adapted from the Help Her Heal Model for the first Phase of Partner Betrayal. This will prepare you for Phase 2, which helps professionals know how to utilize the sex addict and the couple in helping her heal from the anger, grief, morning and loss stage of their relationship as they once knew it. It teaches the “Ultimate Empathy Exercises” that allows her to rage at the addiction, grieve the loss of what she thought she had and mourn what will never be the same again.
If you work with couples who have experienced sexual betrayal, then you know there is so much more that you need to do to create healing in the coupleship. This premier training is a step-by-step guide to getting your couples to that restoration phase of post traumatic growth.
Training Cost: $950.00 - Early Bird until August 21st is $850
HELPING YOU HEAL WORKSHOP
October 8, 2022, 10:00 - 6:00pm Eastern
Carol Juergensen Sheets, LCSW, CSAT, CCPS, CPS (aka: Carol the Coach) and
Kim Hansen Petroni, MA, CPC, CEC, ERCEM Specialist
Please join Carol the Coach and Kim for a day of healing and restoration as they walk you and your partner through a roadmap teaching you how to heal your relationship AFTER sexual betrayal.
Carol authored the wonderfully popular book, Help.Her.Heal, and has seen men successfully heal with her techniques. She wrote Help.Them.Heal as an educational workbook for couples to jointly understand and manage their journey through the complex healing process of betrayal.
HOPE STARTS HERE
This workshop will include:
• Information explaining what the 3 phases of healing from sexual betrayal are; • Hands on support as you work through 6 exercises showing how this model creates safety and stabilization for the betrayed partner.
• Encouraging insight as you practice actual exercises to teach you how to move into the final phase of post-traumatic growth.
But, best of all, Carol understands where you are and has seen relationships restored by consistently using ERCEM tools to reignite empathy in marriages.
This workshop is limited to 10 couples
$695 Registration (With an early bird discount of $595 if you register by September 17th at midnight
ERCEM TRAINING
This training takes your skills to the next level. Carol the Coach is the first clinician to have developed an empathy model that teaches the sex addict to promote healing throughout all 3 phases of Partner Betrayal.
Professionals* will learn empathy and relational skills that they can use with their clients which will enhance working through the 3 Phase Model of Partner Betrayal developed from the APSATS MPTM Model.
Teaching the addict how to empathize is necessary to build the foundational work that is necessary to create safety and stabilization and to prepare for the grieving and anger work in Phase 2 of Partner Betrayal.
This is the first training that will provide a roadmap to helping her heal with the addict by her side.
This 4-day training will provide exercises that have been adapted from the Help Her Heal Model for the first Phase of Partner Betrayal.
This will prepare you for Phase 2, which helps professionals know how to utilize the sex addict and the couple in helping her heal from the anger, grief, morning and loss stage of their relationship as they once knew it. It teaches the “Ultimate Empathy Exercises” that allows her to rage at the addiction,
grieve the loss of what she thought she had and mourn what will never be the same again.
If you work with couples who have experienced sexual betrayal, then you know there is so much more that you need to do to create healing in the coupleship. This premier training is a step-by-step guide to getting your couples to that restoration phase of post traumatic growth.
Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model Training has been approved by NBCC for NBCC credit.
Strategic Coaching & Therapies, LLC solely responsible for all aspects of the program.
NBCC Approval No. SP-3727 for 22.75 CE hours
Carol Juergensen Sheets
Carol has a no-nonsense style and cut-to-the chase attitude that makes it clear she means business. Carol has trained with Dr. Patrick Carnes and has been credentialed as a Certified Sexual Addictions Counselor to provide clients with the needed resources to restore their lives.
Carol’s book Help. Her. Heal (co-authored with Allan J. Katz) is both a workbook and a roadmap for rebuildingrelationships damaged by sexual addiction and other forms of infidelity. With a focus on empathy, the exercises in this guidebook help sex addicts rebuild lost trust and intimacy by helping them understand what the betrayed partner is feeling.
Aarti Chidamberam
Aarti is the only Certified Clinical Partner Specialist (CCPS) in Singapore and has been trained in the Multi-Dimensional Partner Trauma Model. A Clinical Psychologist specializing in Developmental Trauma and Attachment wounds, she is also a Master Practitioner in Neuro-linguistic Programming, and a certified Psychometric Tester. A brain spotting professional, she uses various modalities to help her clients achieve
long lasting positive goals. Aarti is also Level 1 & 2 Gottman Trained. Working in Singapore, she connects with clients across cultures and faiths with sensitivity and genuine empathy. Her holistic approach leaves her clients with empowering tools that help in their own recovery. Having completed the ERCEM
training, she is an ERCEM certified specialist and supervisor. She not only works with couples to heal the Relational Trauma, but also helps other professionals achieve better results with their clients. Aarti also works with teenage and adult children in a family with addiction. Aarti has been facilitating the longest running betrayed partner support group in Singapore.