How Does the Empathy Cycle Work with ERCEM - Carol the Coach explains the concepts behind the Empathy Cycle and how important it is for the addict to lean into you and safe space for your pain. Carol describes the 8 steps that need to occur to help you feel acknowledged, validated and safe.
In this video, Carol takes an assignment from her new book Help.Them.Heal Teaching You Both How to Heal Your Relationship After Sexual Betrayal and teaches you how to set an "Intention." She explains that it is the hardest assignment in the world, because you have been so wounded as a couple, that as the addict...you don't believe you deserve to be able to set a positive intention. And as the partner, you are afraid to declare that there is any part of you that has hope. But as Carol says, it is so important to create the life you deserve and if you are an addict...you deserve good things to show up because you are working a good recovery program and as the partner you definitely need some hope for happiness in your life! Listen as Carol explains how ERCEM can help you both heal from sexual betrayal.
In this video, Carol the Coach talks about Janice Caudill and Dan Drakes Intimacy Pyramid from the Full Disclosure Series that starts with Honesty. She explains why that is the formula from which to work and she gives you both an exercise to build in safety to a relationship riddled by trauma and chaos.
This video assists partners and helps couples develop the safety and trust that has been shattered because of sexual betrayal. It shares the hope that couples need to move forward towards reparation of the relationship. Carol shares the 3 stages of partner betrayal to help normalize what the couple is feeling. She has created ERCEM to help couples heal from the devastation of sexual addiction.