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The Brain Science of Partner Betrayal

  • This animated video depicts how a partner’s brain is impacted after discovery. It highlights her safety seeking behaviors to find the truth and how her amygdala is affected. This really affects her normal functioning and makes getting through a typical day difficult. Lastly, it describes how the collateral damages that cause her to doubt herself and her sense of reality.

The Impact of Sex Addiction on the Partner What’s Wrong with Me?

  •  It is normal for partners to question themselves after discovery.  It leaves them asking themselves ”What’s wrong with me?” They don’t feel that they are good enough for you and they ask themselves, “How could my husband have done this to me and our marriage.” It sends her the message that she doesn’t measure up. 

This Addiction Started Way Before He Met You

  • This animated video depicts how a partner’s brain is impacted after discovery. It highlights her safety seeking behaviors to find the truth and how her amygdala is affected. This really affects her normal functioning and makes getting through a typical day difficult. Lastly, it describes how the collateral damages that cause her to doubt herself and her sense of reality.

The Recovery Tools for Success

  

  • In this video you both learn what it takes to have good solid recovery. It is a measurement for the partner to know what to look for in the spouse’s recovery to increase her sense of safety. In ERCEM, we believe that you are entitled to know about his recovery efforts and be part of the team. When an addict works the recovery program consistently it builds the recovery tools and the relationship all at the same time!

How Does ERCEM – The Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model Work?

  

  • This video shows the necessity for the addict to consistently work on his personal recovery while working on those all-important relational skills. This is a new model that promotes relational skills and both of you taking an active part in building safety. When this model is followed it produces “Empathy” and the relational skills to create a new marriage. And in my opinion, he can be healthier than 85% of all the men out there because he is putting you first and using empathy to show who he can become!

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